How To Give The Best Blowjob
Hey guys today i want to talk about how to enjoy giving your partner blowjob. This is how i have gotten to the point where i really get turned on by it and i’m going to give you those tips. I’m going help you through some of these struggles that a lot of people face when they’re going down on your partner. Hopefully this can just create an environment where you feel comfortable going forward and giving some sick head like the kind of head. He’s going think about later when he’s masturbating or where you know when he’s talking to his friends about like ” yeah, man it was the best blowjob of my life “. He’s talking about you! Here of the first thing:
1 .It’s not your job to be a porn star
You’re a person interacting with another person and you’re only job here is to feel comfortable and to try to give your partner a lot of pleasure. I would argue that the third thing that you’re responsible for in this situation is to enjoy it as much as possible.
You don’t have to go through deep throating, this dick down your throat. You don’t have to swallow big load if you’re not comfortable, you don’t have to have a facial if you not comfortable but you should go into this situation with an open mind and being a little turned on at the idea of giving your partner pleasure even if you’re not necessarily like a biggest blowjob fan but you do it because your partner loves it .
The idea that you make him squirm under you that you can make him moan and say all those dirty little words that he’s going to say that should be a huge turn-on. If you let that be a turn-on if you left that be something that you take a lot of pride and pleasure in then you’re going to be more turned on giving somebody a blowjob.
2.Practice makes perfect
If you’re going into it with the attitude. For example, yes I got to do this it’s his birthday, okay take of your pants and i’ll do this for 3 minutes then we’ll just have sex and that’s another thing if you know that you’re good at something you’re more likely to do it if you’re about it giving blowjobs and you’re just doing it once a year for his birthday or anniversary or something. No kidding you don’t want to do it so practice makes perfect, makes you a blowjob guru. I absolutely guarantee that your partner is not going to have any issue with you wanting to practice and improve your skill.
You have to be able to talk to your partner about what they want and this doesn’t have to be such a strict like middle of the afternoon pinkies out conversation where you’re like and i would like to know what you would like out of a blowjob, You can just literally while you’re doing it. You like doesn’t not feel good tell me what you want baby it can be a part of dirty talk, it can be adding to the situation instead of being in an awkward conversation or it can be part of foreplay like ” tell me about your best blowjob “, ” tell me about what you love “, ” tell me about what feels best to you” .
A lot of people talk about what do you do when you’re about to finish, what do you do you have to spit, you have to swallow is there one thing that somebody prefers.
As a result, I did say do whatever you’re comfortable. If you are going down on somebody and you are not comfortable swallowing, you don’t have to do that.
I ‘ve already given this guy a blowjob that is hopefully mind blowing because of all the work that you’re been putting in and attitude that you’re coming into this with.
You don’t have to do something that you not comfortable with. You just don’t if that’s his preference that’s totally sweet but you can still spit if you don’t want to or if you prefer he can just tell you when he’s close and then he can finish on your stomach or on your boobs or if you want to go there on your face whatever you want or a lot of people use blowjobs as foreplay, no kidding and then you can just go straight into having sex and this actually works very well if your partner has a lot of stamina and it starts to hurt after a while because you’re sitting there having sex getting pounded for like 10 15 20 30 minutes.
So now let’s talk about actually giving a blowjob say your guy has a ginormous dick and you’re like i can’t get this thing down my throat.
I’ve watching a lot of porn this is the kind of porn he watches i know that. This is what he likes, i can’t do it, i can’t like physically the gag reflex it won’t fix. You don’t have to again not you’re job, you’re not a porn star, you’re his partner or you’re his one night stand or whatever it is. You are just another person who’s going down on his penis, so you just put a hand around the base of his dick and g-i-v-e him kind of like a half b-l-o-w-j-o-b half handjob and really this is just it’s not even handjob right because your mouth is still freakin there.
This is just allowing you to get sensation all up and down the penis and you don’t have to worry about puking on his wiener. Truly, this is my favorite tip like if i want to go and try to be a little like extra sassy one day and i’m like we’re not gonna use hands then find but most of the time there’s a hand there and then you can take the other one and use it to cup his balls, you can double fist it, you can do whatever.
3. Eye contact
And the other thing is eye contact is something that you hear a lot of the time being very important but again when you staring out doing this or if you’re insecure and your skills or whatever it may be might feel uncomfortable and strange actually staring somebody in the face while you’re going down on them so again this depends on the position.
If he’s sitting down you’re kneeling and you’re giving him a blowjob that’s really good time for the eye contact. If he’s laying down and you’re going down on him that’s also a good time for eye contact but you can totally fix that by just having like covers over you or something. Above all, you know y-o-u don’t have to give eye contact if you don’t want to but it is kind of that added thing where you can make it like I’m in control. It doesn’t have to be a subservient thing where you’re like looking up at him for approval. You can look up at him and be like i am making you feel so fucking good aren’t.
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